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Our Vows
Today marked Nik and my two year anniversary. Back in October, on his birthday, I asked him to “marry” me. Of course we do not [...]
Request for Support
Dear Family, Friends and Colleagues, I am writing to you today to ask your help in supporting a long time, seemingly unachievable goal of mine—the [...]
Protected: Our House
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Can we form queer spiritual community?
I have pretty much always been a spiritual person. I spent most of my formative (8 – 18) years growing up in a ultra conservative [...]
Gender Fluidity – Part 2
Here is a link to the second and final part of my TransEnough article series discussing how the stereotype of binary gender assumption is an [...]
Applications, Notifications, Withdrawals
Many of my friends know that I had applied for inter-school transfer and was accepted into the PsyD program at CIIS. I was scheduled to [...]
Cutting Away to Queer – Part 3
My Blood Sacrifice Immediately after gaining a new understanding of Kali’s purpose and power I visited my tattoo artist in order to reclaim her presence [...]
Gender Fluidity – Part 1
Here is a link to part one of my TransEnough article series discussing how the stereotype of binary gender assumption is an inherently flawed system. [...]
New Site: Following the Journey
I am excited to introduce my new site: Whole Person Counsel. This site will serve three primary functions: WPC will document my journey though my [...]
Cutting Away to Queer – Part 2
Cutting Away March 2008 marked the end of an almost six-year relationship with another transgender man who was closeted about having been born into a [...]
Cutting Away to Queer – Part 1
The following three-part series was created as a result of a class I took in Spring 2010 at CIIS called Queering the Sacred, which was taught by Dr. Randy Conner.
Body Beautiful
I love, love, love this song. I heard it again a few days ago as I was about to cross over the bay bridge. It [...]
Transgender or Transgendered?
TGQIGNC Finally there is an article that addresses the questions about the correct grammar when writing about transgender individuals and communities. Read the Article at [...]
Why I’m Tired of the Pregnant Man
Once again Thomas Beatie is all over the news. When the story first hit the news two years ago I cringed. People all around me [...]
Confessions of Self-Image
Self-image is a complex thing. I have spent enough time around others that are body positive to learn that any body is beautiful and your [...]
Martin Luther King, Jr.
Thank you for having the courage to be revolutionary. “An individual who breaks a law that conscience tells him is unjust, and who willingly accepts [...]
On Being A Lifetime Student
I am a student. I have been a student as long as I remember. And it is a pleasure to be a student. It is [...]
Happy New Start . . . er . . . Year
New year’s resolutions are, culturally speaking, something that are made in earnest, but made with an almost expectation of failure. There are no pressures to [...]
In The Past Decade . . .
- lived (in order) in Pleasant Hill, CA, SE Portland, NE Portland, NW Portland, Twain Harte, CA, NE Portland, SE Portland, Twain Harte, CA, and [...]
Ch, Ch, Ch, Chia . . . Seeds
The following article has been moved from a former Raw blog of mine that is no longer active. The other day I was in the [...]
Trusting in the Looneyverse [Pt. 2]
Continued from a previous post – Last time I left off: October 26, 2009 – N’s phone rings and it is the soon to be [...]
It’s Alive
The following article has been moved from a former Raw blog of mine that is no longer active. Thanks to a dear friend of mine, [...]
Trusting The Looneyverse [Pt. 1]
Trust is something I do not come by easily. But over this last year I have begun to learn that I need to trust in [...]
Transgender Day of Remembrance
The Awakening
– Author unknown A time comes in your life when you finally get it – when, in the midst of all your fears and insanity, [...]
Needed: Rites of Passage
As part of a class assignment I recently wrote and delivered a rite of passage for transgender, genderqueer and gender non-conforming individuals. Read more about [...]
We Need Compassion NOW!
Just consider it. If you agree visit here to affirm this charter.

Our Vows

Today marked Nik and my two year anniversary. Back in October, on his birthday, I asked him to “marry” me. Of course we do not [...]

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Request for Support

Dear Family, Friends and Colleagues, I am writing to you today to ask your help in supporting a long time, seemingly unachievable goal of mine—the [...]

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