Today marked Nik and my two year anniversary. Back in October, on his birthday, I asked him to “marry” me. Of course we do not [...]
Aug 242010
Jul 312010
I have pretty much always been a spiritual person. I spent most of my formative (8 – 18) years growing up in a ultra conservative [...]
Jun 292010
Here is a link to the second and final part of my TransEnough article series discussing how the stereotype of binary gender assumption is an [...]
Jun 032010
Many of my friends know that I had applied for inter-school transfer and was accepted into the PsyD program at CIIS. I was scheduled to [...]
May 302010
My Blood Sacrifice Immediately after gaining a new understanding of Kali’s purpose and power I visited my tattoo artist in order to reclaim her presence [...]
May 232010
I am excited to introduce my new site: Whole Person Counsel. This site will serve three primary functions: WPC will document my journey though my [...]
May 222010
Cutting Away March 2008 marked the end of an almost six-year relationship with another transgender man who was closeted about having been born into a [...]
May 152010
The following three-part series was created as a result of a class I took in Spring 2010 at CIIS called Queering the Sacred, which was taught by Dr. Randy Conner.
Feb 182010
Once again Thomas Beatie is all over the news. When the story first hit the news two years ago I cringed. People all around me [...]
Jan 262010
Self-image is a complex thing. I have spent enough time around others that are body positive to learn that any body is beautiful and your [...]
Jan 182010
Thank you for having the courage to be revolutionary. “An individual who breaks a law that conscience tells him is unjust, and who willingly accepts [...]
Jan 012010
New year’s resolutions are, culturally speaking, something that are made in earnest, but made with an almost expectation of failure. There are no pressures to [...]
Dec 312009
- lived (in order) in Pleasant Hill, CA, SE Portland, NE Portland, NW Portland, Twain Harte, CA, NE Portland, SE Portland, Twain Harte, CA, and [...]
Dec 212009
Continued from a previous post – Last time I left off: October 26, 2009 – N’s phone rings and it is the soon to be [...]
Nov 272009
Trust is something I do not come by easily. But over this last year I have begun to learn that I need to trust in [...]
Nov 182009
As part of a class assignment I recently wrote and delivered a rite of passage for transgender, genderqueer and gender non-conforming individuals. Read more about [...]
Nov 172009
Just consider it. If you agree visit here to affirm this charter.
Nov 102009
I sit at the Toyota service customer waiting room as I type up this post. It is amazing to me what has become of customer [...]
Oct 112009
“Coming Out Day is rooted in the 1987 March on Washington for Lesbian and Gay Rights with its AIDS Quilt display. That event is widely [...]
Oct 102009
“View change as the one constant in your life. Welcome it. Expect it. Anticipate it.” —Denis Waitley Change has definitely been a constant in my [...]