Today marked Nik and my two year anniversary. Back in October, on his birthday, I asked him to “marry” me. Of course we do not [...]
I have pretty much always been a spiritual person. I spent most of my formative (8 – 18) years growing up in a ultra conservative [...]
Here is a link to the second and final part of my TransEnough article series discussing how the stereotype of binary gender assumption is an [...]
Many of my friends know that I had applied for inter-school transfer and was accepted into the PsyD program at CIIS. I was scheduled to [...]
My Blood Sacrifice Immediately after gaining a new understanding of Kali’s purpose and power I visited my tattoo artist in order to reclaim her presence [...]
I am excited to introduce my new site: Whole Person Counsel. This site will serve three primary functions: WPC will document my journey though my [...]
Cutting Away March 2008 marked the end of an almost six-year relationship with another transgender man who was closeted about having been born into a [...]
Once again Thomas Beatie is all over the news. When the story first hit the news two years ago I cringed. People all around me [...]
Self-image is a complex thing. I have spent enough time around others that are body positive to learn that any body is beautiful and your [...]
Thank you for having the courage to be revolutionary. “An individual who breaks a law that conscience tells him is unjust, and who willingly accepts [...]
New year’s resolutions are, culturally speaking, something that are made in earnest, but made with an almost expectation of failure. There are no pressures to [...]
- lived (in order) in Pleasant Hill, CA, SE Portland, NE Portland, NW Portland, Twain Harte, CA, NE Portland, SE Portland, Twain Harte, CA, and [...]
Continued from a previous post – Last time I left off: October 26, 2009 – N’s phone rings and it is the soon to be [...]
Trust is something I do not come by easily. But over this last year I have begun to learn that I need to trust in [...]
As part of a class assignment I recently wrote and delivered a rite of passage for transgender, genderqueer and gender non-conforming individuals. Read more about [...]
I sit at the Toyota service customer waiting room as I type up this post. It is amazing to me what has become of customer [...]
“Coming Out Day is rooted in the 1987 March on Washington for Lesbian and Gay Rights with its AIDS Quilt display. That event is widely [...]
“View change as the one constant in your life. Welcome it. Expect it. Anticipate it.” —Denis Waitley Change has definitely been a constant in my [...]













