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		<title>Unlearning</title>
		<link>http://nonsequiter.com/2011/10/unlearning/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Oct 2011 17:58:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Del R.</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I knew that my PsyD program was going to personally impact me, but I guess I underestimated just how quickly and radically it would require me to examine my understanding of myself. In my basic clinical and counseling skills class we have begun working on assertiveness. This is an area that I have both anticipation [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Losing The Will To Fight</title>
		<link>http://nonsequiter.com/2011/10/losing-the-will-to-fight/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Oct 2011 10:29:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Del R.</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://nonsequiter.com/?p=1703</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m an incredibly stubborn person. I will stick with a decision for a very long time when I see that there is a glimmer of hope for success. But there comes a time where all the signs I used to be able to point to, to hold on to seem to totally fade away. It [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Complicated</title>
		<link>http://nonsequiter.com/2011/06/complicated/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Jun 2011 01:33:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Del R.</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://nonsequiter.com/?p=1616</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Timing is a bitch and nothing is ever simple. Commitments to preserving something cherished, but the aching to transform it to something new. My breath keeps catching in my chest with these words, these truths, only to be convoluted by logic and the desire to do what is right. We are good and we are [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Letting Go . . .</title>
		<link>http://nonsequiter.com/2011/06/letting-go/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jun 2011 06:33:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Del R.</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://nonsequiter.com/?p=1607</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Relationships do not always turn out the way you hope. Unlike all the romance movies, books, and songs, loving someone isn&#8217;t always enough. Happy endings do not always mean what you hope it will mean. Sometimes, you have to release your expectations of the fairytale ending and find joy in the friendship gained. Sometimes letting [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Count To Ten</title>
		<link>http://nonsequiter.com/2011/03/count-to-ten/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Mar 2011 17:04:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Del R.</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://nonsequiter.com/?p=1469</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Patience, taking things slowly and as they come. I get it. I even understand why this is important. Now if only I can help that little kid inside understand all of this. ]]></description>
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		<title>Applications, Notifications, Withdrawals</title>
		<link>http://nonsequiter.com/2010/06/applications-notifications-withdrawals/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jun 2010 23:01:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Del R.</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://nonsequiter.com/?p=477</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Many of my friends know that I had applied for inter-school transfer and was accepted into the PsyD program at CIIS. I was scheduled to start the program this August. Many also know that I encountered one problem, after another, and another, and another thanks to the school&#8217;s administration during the PsyD application process. Sadly, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Hurry Up &amp; Wait</title>
		<link>http://nonsequiter.com/2009/11/hurry-up-wait/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 16:18:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Del R.</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://nonsequiter.com/?p=346</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I sit at the Toyota service customer waiting room as I type up this post. It is amazing to me what has become of customer service. The benefits of the internet can sometimes be misleading. I was thrilled to be able to make an appointment online to get my 45,000 mile service on my car. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Mixed</title>
		<link>http://nonsequiter.com/2009/02/mixed/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Feb 2009 04:23:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Del R.</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://nonsequiter.com/?p=850</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[tonight was . . . interesting. putting me in bar space is always a precarious scenario. i am forced to deal with drunk people and loud people and people who seem to loose there concept of personal space. most people think i don&#8217;t drink. socially it is a rarity. my reasons for this are myriad. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Dear January</title>
		<link>http://nonsequiter.com/2009/01/dear-january/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Feb 2009 04:09:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Del R.</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://nonsequiter.com/?p=836</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I am asking you please, take with you the crappy start that you have brought to 2009. Never before have I witnessed so much grief in the eyes of those I loved within the span of one month. You are supposed to be the bearer of hope and promise, but this year, you brought with [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Brain Drain</title>
		<link>http://nonsequiter.com/2009/01/brain-drain/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Jan 2009 03:52:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Del R.</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://nonsequiter.com/?p=827</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[holy crap i have so much in my head right now. this post is really more of a please gawd get it out of my head, stream of consciousness, sanity thing. within the first few days of the year i learned that one friend had been diagnosed with stage 4 ovarian cancer and another was [...]]]></description>
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		<title>ENOUUUUUUUGGGGHHHH!!!!</title>
		<link>http://nonsequiter.com/2008/12/enouuuuuuugggghhhh/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Dec 2008 03:36:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Del R.</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://nonsequiter.com/?p=819</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[it snowed so much last night that you could not see my front steps. N was very sweet and dropped me off at home after the party rather than making me drive in it from his house. I literally had to feel for each of the bottom steps. and then when i got in the [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Baggages and Stages of Healing</title>
		<link>http://nonsequiter.com/2008/11/baggages-and-stages-of-healing/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Nov 2008 03:09:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Del R.</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://nonsequiter.com/?p=795</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[there comes a point when i feel like i have to make a decision to change the course of direction when it comes to baggage. now obviously this is not to say that i can simply choose not to be triggered or have a baggage related responses simply because i will it so. if only [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Gender Is Fucked</title>
		<link>http://nonsequiter.com/2008/10/gender-is-fucked/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Oct 2008 01:38:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Del R.</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://nonsequiter.com/?p=757</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[[last night i went to hear my favorite author, Thea Hillman, read from her new book Intersex (for lack of a better word). as with all good readings it reminded me about a certain topic that has been rattling around in my head needing to be written down in order to give me a bit [...]]]></description>
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		<title>I&#8217;ve Stopped Caring</title>
		<link>http://nonsequiter.com/2008/10/ive-stopped-caring/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Oct 2008 01:29:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Del R.</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://nonsequiter.com/?p=749</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[i’ve recently realized that I’ve stopped caring what others think of me. am i . . . . . . smart enough . . . hott enough . . . trendy enough . . . talented enough . . . sexy enough . . . thin enough . . . quick enough . . . [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Raw</title>
		<link>http://nonsequiter.com/2008/09/raw/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Sep 2008 01:11:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Del R.</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://nonsequiter.com/?p=734</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I allowed myself to trust. ok, it’s more than that. I allowed myself to be vulnerable. fuck, I don’t even have words to touch upon how I feel about it. to allow myself to be so open and raw, to open my throat and let my primordial voice free. I felt something for the first [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Saying Goodbye to Shadows</title>
		<link>http://nonsequiter.com/2008/09/saying-goodbye-to-shadows/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Sep 2008 01:09:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Del R.</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://nonsequiter.com/?p=732</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[its funny how shadows can silently hide in the corners without any knowledge that they remain, clinging, grasping, holding onto that part of you that you have buried, hidden, tried to forget. and then, you dare, you try, you shine a light into that forgotten part of you and there it is, the shadow. that [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Honest Intentions, Closed Ears</title>
		<link>http://nonsequiter.com/2008/08/honest-intentions-closed-ears/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Aug 2008 01:01:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Del R.</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://nonsequiter.com/?p=725</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[i&#8217;ve been honest from the start telling you what i can and can not give we have so little to share but we enjoy the company i check constantly reminding you of who i am and who i am not you assure me your eyes are open you assure me you understand but every time [...]]]></description>
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		<title>About Kali</title>
		<link>http://nonsequiter.com/2008/08/about-kali/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Aug 2008 00:54:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Del R.</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It was right around the time that M and I split and after my health scare that I realized that it was absolutely time for me to get my Kali tattoo. Here is the background story on her significance. I was a devoted Christian from the age of 8 – 18. I belonged (this word [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Independence The Hard Way</title>
		<link>http://nonsequiter.com/2008/08/independence-the-hard-way/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Aug 2008 00:52:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Del R.</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Perhaps the scariest moment is when after several days of actual heart pain and numbness in my left arm, I was overtaken with dizziness and quite literally believed I might be having a heart attack. I was hit by my singleness and the reality of living alone as I took myself to the emergency room. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Wide-a-sleepy</title>
		<link>http://nonsequiter.com/2008/01/wide-a-sleepy/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Jan 2008 23:36:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Del R.</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am less than thrilled that it is already Sunday. My weekends always go to fast. There should be some way to double up Saturdays and then make Sundays go even longer. Somebody want to help me out here? I&#8217;m having quite a bit of anxiety because Winter term starts tomorrow and my first Thesis [...]]]></description>
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